Friday, January 1, 2021

Lolita Blog Carnival: Create a Coord based on a Movie or TV Show!

 Hello everyone and welcome to another Lolita Blog Carnival post!

I apologize for being MIA on this blog, but I believe I speak for everyone when I say that this pandemic has disoriented our lives, but I would like to start off the new year with a blog post about something I love!

Today I'm making a coord based on one of my favorite movies: The Love Witch by Anna Biller!



The Love Witch is centered around a woman who moves from San Francisco to a small town after the suspicious death of her husband. She practices witchcraft and uses it to find herself a man, but she pays the price as she leaves a string of broken hearts!

What I love about this movie is the homage it pays homage to the occult theme of the 1960s, with psychedelic color schemes and references to a traditional Rider-Waite tarot deck! (WARNING: Images of Suggestive themes are in the following photos!)



I especially loved Elaine Parks' sense of style, my favorite outfit being her iconic pink look with the signature pink hat that she wore to the Victorian Tea room!



For this coord, I want to recreate her pink outfit with a bit of a soft old-school twist, perfect for a Victorian tea break!


OP, Socks: BABY, THE STARS SHINE BRIGHT
Hat, Gloves: Angelic Pretty
Shoes: ALICE AND THE PIRATES

Thank you for reading today's Lolita Blog Carnival post! Here are some other bloggers with coords to share!
If you haven't joined the Facebook group, click the picture above to join!

I'll see you all in the next post!

-Blandis

Friday, September 20, 2019

Silk and Shears DIY: Rose Wedding Headpiece from Animal Crossing: Pocket Camp

Hello everyone and welcome to another Silk and Shears DIY, this time the first of a series of DIYs!

Today we are going to make the rose wedding headpiece from the cute mobile game, Animal Crossing: Pocket Camp!


I always see so many cute things for my villager to wear, so I became inspired to make a series of tutorials of my favorite picks from Pocket Camp!

If you have other suggestions of what I should make from other Animal Crossing games, please let me know in the comments below!

Level: Beginner

This tutorial is fun and easy for anyone at any sewing/crafting level to do, and you can get creative with this however you like! In fact, I actually made a Gothic version of this headpiece earlier!


Materials Needed:
-1 Large Ivory Rose, and 1 Small Pink Rose (I bought the fake roses from Dollar Tree, but feel free to make the roses out of ribbon or fabric any way you would like!)
-1 Yard of Pink Tulle Fabric
-Pearl Decals/Beads/Buttons (Make sure they are not heavy, as they are going to be placed on the tulle!)
-Thread, Pins, and Hand Sewing Needles
-Pink Felt
-1 Hairclip
-Fabric Glue or Hot Glue (Fabric-Tac is an excellent heat-less alternative to hot glue! You can find it at WalMart for a pretty good price!)



Let's start!

Step 1
Cut out long and wide strips of pink tulle for the main part of the headpiece. The longer the piece, the more ruffle you can gather. Sew some strips together if needed to add length.
What you want is just enough to make a ruffled circle that's just big enough to cover your hand, so don't cut the strips too thin! If they are too wide, that's okay, because you can cut them shorter if you need to.

If the tulle is thin such as the one I am using, you may want to cut multiple strips for layering on top of each other.
I cut mine about 5 inches wide. Remember, it's always good to have too much at first so you can dial it down as much as you need if necessary.


Step 2
Sew the ends of the strip(s) together. I suggest overcasting by machine so the ends are stronger and the tulle is less likely to rip apart.


Gather the trips together to form tulle flowers. Layer them on top of each other.
If the flowers are too big, you can make them smaller by gathering from the top with your hand, then cutting from the top as much as you want off.



Step 3
Once the tulle flowers are sewn together, cut two felt circles.
Set one to the side for later, and sew or glue the other to the back of the tulle flower, forming a base for the roses.



Step 4
Once the main piece is done, sew or glue the roses on.
Place them right next to each other.

Pro Tip: if the rose has an unsightly center, make a better-looking center by placing a little ribbon knot or a pearl bead there.


If you are using fake roses, cut the stem off before sewing them on.
This makes them easier to adhere to the tulle.


Step 5
Time to take out the pearls!
Adhere a few pearls to different spots on the headpiece.


Step 6
Take out the other felt circle and glue or sew it to the other felt circle on the back of the headpiece.
Glue the hairclip to the center of the felt with the flat side facing the felt.


And we are done!



Now you have a cute and unique little headpiece that is perfect for a wedding!

Animal Crossing: Pocket Camp (Nintendo Co., Ltd.)

Thank you for viewing and following this tutorial today!

Please remember to follow me on Instagram @silk.and.shears

If you have any suggestions on what I should do a DIY on next, feel free to leave them in the comments. I'll have more DIYs up soon!

See you next post!


-Blandis




Friday, September 13, 2019

Silk and Shears DIY: Ghost-Inspired Lace Cross Headpiece

Hello everyone! Happy Friday the 13th in a September, and welcome to another Silk and Shears DIY!

Today, metal band Ghost released a new single! My love for Ghost is so strong, I was inspired (at the very last minute I admit!) to make a Lace Cross Headpiece inspired by Cardinal Copia's colors!


For this little project, I referenced to Moi-même-Moitié's Lace Cross Headbow for inspiration!


Level: Intermediate

This DIY is just a little bit above beginner's level and for those already familiar with a sewing machine and have a pretty good sense of what is good lace quality. (We will discuss different kinds of lace and such in another post!)
Also, although there are many ways that this sort of headbow can be made, I wanted mine to be more like a hat than a bow, hence why the head piece from this tutorial is going to turn out a bit different than Moitié's.

Materials Needed:
-Black Fabric (Use a slightly sturdy fabric for this headpiece. Any opaque cotton or polyester-like fabric will do.)
-Interfacing
-White Wide Lace Trim
-1 Large Rose (This is for the center of the cross, but you can choose whichever center you would like!)
-Black Netting or Tulle
-1 Hairclip
-Sewing Machine (You may also sew everything by hand if you so desire.)
-Hot Glue (Fabric-Tac is the easiest way to go, but since this piece is for Cardinal Copia, we're using hot glue today~!)
-Hand Needles and Thread


Let's start!

Step 1
Cut the pieces.

First, cut 2 short strips of fabric, and 2 long strips of the fabric.
The long strip 10 inches long, the short strip 7.5 inches long, both 2.5 inches wide.



Cut pieces of interfacing using the fabric pieces as a pattern.
Iron the interfacing on.


Step 2
Cut the lace.

After the strips are cut and ironed, take out the wide lace and cut to as long as the main cross strips are. This lace is supposed to run down the middle of the strips.
Cut one piece for the front of the cross. Repeat for the short piece.


Once all the lace pieces are cut, sew them to the main fabric.


Overcast stitch the raw edges.


Step 3
Form the cross!

Sew the short pieces together, and the long pieces together making both parts of the cross.
Leave an end open on each piece to be able to turn inside out.
Turn the pieces inside out and take a look at the lengths of each piece before you continue.


Now there is a reason the pieces will be too long.
It's so you can easily adjust the length to however you would like.

To do this, cut to the length you want from the open end of the piece, overcast stitch the raw edge very carefully, then close with a blind stitch.



Pro Tip: It's always good to have too much fabric.
While you can always cinch in fabric, you can't recreate it once it has been cut, so be a little bit generous!

Iron the pieces down to press them as flat as you can.
Form the cross and sew or glue them together from the center.

Step 4
Time to decorate!

Get the tulle or netting and cut a wide strip or two of it. Sew the ends together using an overcast stitch.
You want just enough to form a flower that is just a bit bigger than the rose.
I cut my netting about 5 inches wide.


Form a netting flower by gathering it to the center.
For delicate fabrics like tulle or netting, I recommend gathering by hand.


Sew or glue the rose in the center of the netting flower to form the center piece for the cross.
Place the completed rose and netting piece in the center of the cross.
Sew or glue it to the cross. (I do a bit of both for extra reinforcement and for hard-to-reach places.)


Step 5
Create a little backing for the cross by cutting a little circle out of fabric and interfacing.

Iron the interfacing to the circle and overcast stitch the edge of the circle.
Sew or glue it to the back of the center of the cross.
Hot glue the hair clip to the backing.


And we are done!


Thank you for viewing and following this tutorial today!

Please remember to follow me on Instagram @silk.and.shears

If you have any suggestions on what I should do a DIY on next, feel free to leave them in the comments. I'll have more DIYs up soon!

See you next post!


-Blandis





Friday, August 16, 2019

What to know before seeing a Seamstress!

Hello everyone and welcome to another blog post!

Today I'm going to give you some things to know before seeing a seamstress or a tailor for any of your clothing repair/alteration needs!

As a seamstress, I sometimes have customers who are not sure how to tell me what they want done, or how to prepare their clothes for me, or what may need to be done before I can get started.

So here are some helpful things to do!

1. If you need something hemmed, it helps to put a pin or mark where you want it. 

The job gets done a lot faster that way, and it helps you to make sure it will be exactly where you want it! The seamstress should know what to do from there. If you don't have any pins or fabric chalks/pencils/markers, be dressed to change into the garment when you get to your seamstress/tailor so they can measure where you want the hem properly.

2. If you need something repaired or altered, always consider the sewing level of the seamstress you are going to!

If it's a small tear that can be easily fixed by hand or a button that needs to be reattached, that sort of job is usually inexpensive and not very difficult for the seamstress to do. However, if there is an extensive amount of damage, or a complicated alteration, expect to either have the job turned down because they don't feel strong enough to do it well if the seamstress or tailor is not a professional, or if they are professional, expect for the job to take a while, and be expensive to do.

3. If you are getting something commissioned, either purchase materials in advance or be ready to add the material cost to your seamstress' rate.

Most people who see a seamstress forget how much time, effort, and money is put into a custom garment, and how expensive sewing and crafting materials can be.

The average rate of a seamstress is at least $15 an hour, so always ask for an estimate of the total. Also, always ask if they take payment plans, and how they receive payment, either via app or cash.

4. Tip Generously!

If you support artists, you should support seamstresses and tailors too! In a way, they are artists as well! Tip your local artists!

So those are just a few things to consider before seeing a tailor or seamstress! It is really great to get to know one. You could save your favorite clothes, save your money from not having to purchase new clothes, and save the environment from having your clothes made more sustainable!

Thank you for reading, and make sure your garments are in good hands!

-Blandis

Friday, May 3, 2019

Silk and Shears DIY: How to make Mini Felt Strawberries!

Hello everyone and welcome to the first Silk and Shears DIY!

For this first DIY, I decided to show you something that is very easy that literally anyone at any sewing level can do!

Today we are going to make some cute strawberries out of felt.
These kinds of strawberries are often seen on old school sweet or country Lolita!
You can put these on hats, wrist cuffs, chokers, headdresses, what ever you can think of!

Level: Beginner
This tutorial is although a teensy bit meticulous, is super easy!

Materials Needed:
-Red Felt
-Green Felt (This is for the leaves and tops of the strawberries. You can pick a different color of felt, or you can substitute the felt for fake leaves and stems from fake flowers!)
-White Embroidery Thread (This is for the seeds of the strawberries.)
-Embroidery Needle
-Scissors
-Fabric Glue or Hot Glue Gun (Optional for the top of the strawberries. I recommend Fabric-Tac glue! you can find it at Wal-Mart!)



Let's start!

Step 1
Make a pattern for the strawberries. Make the pattern bigger than how you want them to come out to leave a good seam allowance.



Step 2
Cut the strawberry pieces out!

After cutting the pieces out, fix the edges a bit so every thing is even.




Step 3
Embroider the strawberry seeds!

Tip: Keep the stitches close, but not too close! If you do that, the thread will go right through and make a hole in the felt!




Step 4
Sew the main berry pieces together by hand, if not by machine, and stuff them.

I chose cotton balls for the stuffing and used a crochet needle to stuff with.

If sewing by hand, make the stitches as tight as you can. If the seams are too lose, the stuffing will come out and the strawberry will rip easily.



Step 4
Sew or glue the top on.

I chose to sew it on, but whatever works better for you!


And we are finished!




Now you can make all kinds of cute strawberries to decorate almost anything you want to add a bit of sweetness to!

Thank you for viewing and following this tutorial today!

Please remember to follow me on Instagram and Facebook!
Both are @silk.and.shears

If you have any suggestions on what I should do a DIY on next, feel free to leave them in the comments. I'll have more DIYs up soon!

See you next post!

-Blandis

Friday, February 8, 2019

The Origins of Lolita Fashion: Part 3 - The Feminist Impact

Hello everyone, and welcome to the third and FINAL part of The Origins of Lolita Fashion!

In the last part, I wrote about how the fashion came to be what it is, and where the fashion took inspiration from. (Read Part 1 here, and Part 2 here.)

Today we will discuss the feminist impact the fashion has despite its conservative aesthetic.

We answer the final question: "Is Lolita fashion feminist?"

Last time I wrote about a feminist impact that Lolita fashion has, I mentioned that in Japan, Lolita fashion was worn by girls who refused to live up to the common expectation of finding a husband and becoming domestic obedient wives, and instead dressed for themselves, and for their own happiness.


Well in the West, it was a bit different.

While many girls in the Western Goth and Punk movement preferred fishnet stockings, short skirts, lace-up combat boots, and corset tops as their choice of weapons to fight the suppressing, man-made "Good Girl" image that demonized any girl who preferred to behave otherwise, I believe the conservative side of Lolita Fashion fought a different form of suppression: an American archetype I like to call, The Malibu Barbie.

Throughout most of the early 2000s in America, most girls in the magazines and on TV were often clad in questionably tacky and revealing clothing, mostly in bright colors. Most girls featured in TV shows, pop music, and movies targeted towards young girls were also perky, white, rich, and blonde.

That made very little room for any other kind of representation that broke away from that model.

Paris Hilton during that time was a prime example of The Malibu Barbie.

Paris Hilton during the 2000s.

In commercials, if super models weren't in tight-fitted tops and short skirts eating food in a questionably suggestive way, they were in lingerie or swimsuits. They had skinny waists, perfect cleavages, and shaped butts in small panties. (Remember those controversial Carl's Jr. ads that got taken down?)

It was an unhealthy boost of hypersexualization and promotion of the super model build of women in the media, and it became a problem that still goes on today!
It was the perfect way to make girls and women feel insecure.
It was the perfect way to entice young girls into believing that if they spend money on products listed in their favorite magazines that tell them how to lose weight and look hot, they will get a boyfriend, become popular, and be satisfied.

I believe Lolita Fashion, especially Gothic Lolita, fights that.

It runs far away from the male fantasy,
it denies men the view of the naked female body,
it strengthens the idea that a girl should dress for herself instead of catering to a desire for popularity and the male gaze,
it strikes fear into people who refused to understand alternative fashion, music and culture.
and it refuses to let the wearer become sucked into the media that profits off of insecurities and low self-esteems.

Gothic Lolita Psycho 2010

To me, Lolita fashion really takes from the liberal spirit of Punk rock. The same spirit that called for people to break away from the oppressive Government and the mainstream media's idea of how everyone should be. The same spirit that called for people to be who they are and embrace it. The same spirit that tells women that no matter what they wear, they are NOT made to be objects of sexual interest, they are people who have the right to what they wear, and what they do!

Now, I am not saying that grown women can't dress however they wish to, because they certainly can!
I am saying that grown women ALSO have the right to keep their bloomers on, and their shoulders covered should they wish to, and women deserve to be seen for who they are as a person rather than by the sexualized parts on their body.

Lolita fashion, unintentionally enforces a girl's right to protect her own body from those who have little to no respect for her privacy, and her right to pursue her own personal happiness over catering to a man's wishes.

I say, that's pretty damn feminist!

So now we come back to the questions at hand.

When did Lolita fashion first begin?

Answer: During Japan's Goth and Punk movement in the late 1980s-early 1990s, and the fashion took a lot from the earlier days of that movement in its style and attitude.

How did Lolita fashion become what it is?

Answer: Lolita fashion is said to have taken a big majority of inspiration from the Victorian and Rococo eras, and that inspiration was combined with Gothic and Punk fashion to create a new style. A couple of the biggest contributors to the fashion are the magazine Gothic Lolita Bible, and prominent designer brands Moi-Même-Moitié, and Vivienne Westwood.

Is Lolita fashion feminist?

Answer: Personally, I believe Lolita fashion IS feminist. It certainly fights against the male fantasy, as well as certain forms of female suppression, even if it's unintentional.

Thank you so much for reading, I hope those wanting to get into Lolita fashion or are already into the fashion feel proud to wear it, and really feel the spirit of it!

-Blandis